I know, I know coming from a married woman this should probably not have been said right ?
I’m happily married may I state that but my husband added to my happiness.
Being single is a beautiful period to discover yourself. Many people do not even know how to make themselves happy. If you can’t how do you think someone else can? Ask yourself that question. Enjoy being single. Go on dates with yourself , pamper you, buy you some gifts, pray for you, travel, have fun. Build yourself financially, educationally and spiritually so when your man comes and if he comes he adds value, joy, happiness to your life and not be the ultimate of it. You don’t want your life to depend so much on another person, you putting them in a tight spot .
When you know how to love yourself, you set your self up for your partner. He sees you and holds you in high value. Diamond is sold for high value because everyone sees and recognizes it’s worth. Let the people around you recognize your worth and they gonna place a high value on you.
Do not be in a rush to get into a relationship, let family, friends, society not pressure you to commit to making someone else happy when you can’t do that for yourself. You are a “QUEEN,” put on your crown and walk with your head up high and a real man will recognize your worth. Do not settle for less. Love on yourself so you will recognize when someone else is loving you.
Father’s please be your daughters first love. Show them what true love is so they wouldn’t settled for any guy in the streets that shows them a little bit of attention. And above all, love God, because only him can love you unconditionally and only by knowing him can you find true happiness.
So tell me how do you make yourself happy? Drop your comments below I’ll like to know.